I've read alot of ENFJ threads that address how one knows if an ENFJ likes them romantically, and I'm kind of confused. Many posters said things to the effect of "if an ENFJ likes you they will most likely become uncharacteristically tongue-tied or quiet , and perhaps even avoid the object of their affection, for fear of saying something to make the love interest not like them." I also read comments to the effect of "if an ENFJ is interested in you, you've never been more sure of anything in your life!" So I"m confused. Isn't that contradictory? or is it to mean that if an ENFJ is flirting with other people in front of you and avoiding you, you can most certainly be sure that they're interested in you?
j/k but really--what is it? thanks!