I hope I'm posting this in the right place, and I hope to have some more positive posts in the future. Quite honestly, the stimulus for me to post here is that I've noticed a pattern of me attracting a lot of people who are going through problems in their life. I'm happy to listen and help out, but it does get quite wearing after a while. Any others with this problem and any advice on how to break this cycle? I feel guilty if I try to avoid them or leave them on their own.