I have been abused by a colleague who I believe is envious of me. She has harrassed me in public, in private and whenever she found an oppurtunity. I feel so angry with myself for letting this happen to me. I have left my job so I won't be seeing her very often but I'm finding it difficult to move on. I feel that I failed myself. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could come to terms with this and approve of myself and believe in myself again?