Actually i totally do all of this haha, especially this part, "I tend to imagine various scenarios, how something going on now could play out, and I even construct absurdly ideal situations that I know will never be (just for the fun of it)." I think i misworded the original post.
What i'm really wondering is that is can you fellow ENFPs imagine what youll want in the future.
Like when it comes to planning your life for yourself, can you imagine what sort of life your future self will want.
I can't do that at all and i'm wondering if thats a type trait or just a problem i've personally got.