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  • NO - I'm an ENFJ

    4 3.31%
  • NO - I'm an INFP

    9 7.44%
  • NO - I'm an ENFP

    9 7.44%
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    27 22.31%
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    7 5.79%
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    32 26.45%
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Thread: NFs, would you marry an atheist?

  1. #131
    Senior Member Array King sns's Avatar
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    Much more likely to marry someone with unset beliefs. Unlikely to marry anybody who won't move out of their mental comfort zone, so I said no. More likely to marry an agnostic.
    06/13 10:51:03 five sounds: you!!!
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    06/13 10:51:23 five sounds: oh hell naw
    06/13 10:51:55 shortnsweet: !!!!
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  2. #132
    Let me count the ways Array HelenOfTroy's Avatar
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    I'm sure this has probably been mentioned somewhere along this thread but could the question be "Would an atheist marry you"...
    Would they (the atheists) prefer not to marry at all?
    So then the question, in that vein, could also be "Could you get an atheist to marry you?"
    I'm just thinking of the religious connection to marriage, yes we have adapted to society's requirements regarding marriage, non religious persons can also marry and there are legal benefits etc, but i'm interested in what opinions atheists hold.

    Nb...yes Nico i do realise this post is a mess but i'm too messy to tidy it up.
    "We knew he was someone who had a tragic flaw, that's where his greatness came from"

  3. #133
    yap yap yap Array xenaprincess's Avatar
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    I'm spiritual but not adherent to any belief. I'm more similar to a buddhist.
    My fiance is an INTJ and an aetheist. He has other beliefs though, like in conspiracies and ghosts (!).

    I agree w/ the others, F and T have not much to do with religious belief. I know plenty of T people who are religious and F people who aren't.

  4. #134
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    'Twould bother me, personally. I would feel like I couldn't be completely open with her.
    I think I would just try to convince her contantly, and it would be weird.
    Sorry to get all "religious" on my first post, lol.

  5. #135


    hi, im an nf

    i don`t believe there is a god, jesus, alla. I don`t find living an eternity in servitude and worship kissing Jesus balls or Allah or whatever super natural being to be appealing.

    I enjoy the company of other atheist as well
    "I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine. "
    -Bruce Lee

  6. #136
    curiouser and curiouser Array bluestripes's Avatar
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    no, i don't think so. spirituality is a significant part of my life and i would like to be able to agree with my husband on some fundamental issues. i would prefer him to be a christian, too - not necessarily orthodox, but still with somewhat similar views (catholic, possibly lutheran).

    it's not that i wouldn't be able to respect his choice if he believed differently, or did not believe altogether. but i think there are matters where people do need to connect, and this is one of them (to me).

    not sure that this has anything to do with my being a feeler.
    "i love deadlines. i like the whooshing sound they make as they fly by." (c) douglas adams

    "there are only two ways to live your life. one is as though nothing is a miracle. the other is as though everything is a miracle." (c) albert einstein

    "if only i could grow with my eyes - like these leaves - into the depth" (c) sergei esenin

    "god is in the details" (c) proverb

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    lurking Array Rasofy's Avatar
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    There seems to be a significant connection with being NF and being spiritual(admittedly, not religious):

    ''dood, there's not enough data to conclude anything''
    I think you should just keep believing personality doesn't affect anything and oddly enough is useful (???). That's what being enlightened is all about.

    ''But I know a non spiritual NF! And a religious NT!''
    To state the obvious, it's a matter of probabilities and tendencies.

    A man builds. A parasite asks 'Where is my share?'
    A man creates. A parasite says, 'What will the neighbors think?'
    A man invents. A parasite says, 'Watch out, or you might tread on the toes of God... '


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