So...deep deep down I appreciate having someone to protect me. I naturally care about people yet this sort of 'protection' and someone to order things is what I want. So..do types such as ENFJ's naturally protect people....just like INFP's naturally dream and then the the ENFJs will appreciate an INFP.. like 'wanting' someone to protect? Do they look for 'the dreamer' and the kind of 'softer' (in a way) character of the INFP?
What im trying to say is do they both naturally do the opposite and look for the opposite?