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    Quote Originally Posted by FakePlasticAlice View Post
    accusing me of something that i despise and couldn't be further from the truth = CHECK
    This'll usually do it for me.
    Masquerading as a normal person day after day is exhausting.

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    "Do as I say, not as I do." Always irritates me really badly.

    Being used, taken advantage of, manipulated and strung along, having the boundaries I set get crossed or broken, personal space invaded...

    Biggest thing that pisses me off? Forgiving someone for a mistake they made, after I make sure they understand how hurt I was, usually in regards to one of the above things, only to have them do it again.
    I believe in make believe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FakePlasticAlice View Post
    building of negative emotion = CHECK
    really bad day = CHECK
    treating someone i love poorly = CHECK
    selfish, self absorbed = CHECK
    hypocritical = CHECK
    taking advantage of me = CHECK
    accusing me of something that i despise and couldn't be further from the truth = CHECK

    All the right ingredient for an Alice Bomb.
    I completely identify with ALL OF THE ABOVE. I also had a rather nasty explosion of INFJ aggressive behavior on Christmas this year... It really IS the best time of year.

    I live away at school and hadn't been home in a year. I have an estrogen filled house at home with my mother, grandmother, aunt, cousin, and cousin's 22 month old all living in my mom's house. My cousin is a horror and pushes her baby off on anyone and is SO SELFISH and I literally can't stand to live in the same house as her because of this INFJ build-up.

    Christmas- I had gone shopping the day before with the baby and her grandmother for her (the baby's) Christmas presents, then we had a family dinner... where my cousin outright got snide with me about holding HER baby... then I came home and was happy to help out and wrap all the presents. They stayed in my room all night, I set up the tree for her in the morning.. and then my cousin just came in my room and set another present on my bed... expecting me to wrap it without even asking... that annoyed me a little bit... but then after the baby opened the presents, I set the stuff up while my cousin sat around playing computer games... and then SHE LEFT TO HAVE LUNCH WITH HER FRIEND... on Christmas.. when she has a child. I was beyond pissed and EXPLODED on her

    I feel kind of bad, because my mother told her that if I move home after school then they have to move out.. I just don't know how to handle being in the same environment with her...

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    ^ *shakes head* people...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Virulence View Post
    "Do as I say, not as I do." Always irritates me really badly.

    Being used, taken advantage of, manipulated and strung along, having the boundaries I set get crossed or broken, personal space invaded...

    Biggest thing that pisses me off? Forgiving someone for a mistake they made, after I make sure they understand how hurt I was, usually in regards to one of the above things, only to have them do it again.
    Yes!!! This one (BOLD) is how you make an INFJ aggressive.. I am a bad boy in this case.. A very bad boy indeed.

    It's also how to make me aggressive.. Hmmm

    The first two are also things INFJs have been known to do as well, at least in my experiences .
    They are also things they accused me of.

    Do NFJs just not like seeing themselves in others??

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    It can indeed be a WTF moment for many.

    Skip to 01:00 in. [YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4SqXl9Zj6k&NR=1"]Surprise Attack[/YOUTUBE]

    lmao Kamikaze when cornerned.
    Last edited by iwakar; 02-15-2011 at 07:45 PM. Reason: note
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