have we had this thread before? if so, i apologize in advance. but seriously enfps- this is something i have discussed with my irl enfp friends & something that plagues me constantly. why do we make bad choices when we are fully aware of the situation at hand? we see the red flags & we choose to ignore them. why do we do this? do you do this? how do we stop doing this? maybe you are an enfp & you don't relate- if so, you are very lucky.