This is not in reference to my SO, but another ENFJ who is my friend. He is usually encouraging, and interesting to talk to, but then every once and a while he will say something that is really blunt, and in my opinion rude. Usually it has to do with some area I am interested in, and he will say something really dismissive. Or if we have a difference of opinion, he will state his, like it is the only opinion in the whole world and everyone who thinks otherwise is stupid.
Do other ENFJ's do this? Should I point out that he is being dismissive or just ignore it?