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    Default ENFP and the Five Love Languages

    I saw that there was one for INFJs and I began to wonder how many other ENFPs besides me have Physical Touch as their primary love language. My theory is that it would be high because of certain stereotypes about ENFPs, but I could be wrong.

    HERE IS THE TEST I PUT THE LINK IN BIG COLORED LETTERS SO IT WOULD BE OBVIOUS TO ENFPS

    Once you get there you choose wife, husband, or single, for the appropriate form of the test.


    Mine:

    1. Physical Touch
    2. Acts of Service
    3. Quality Time
    4. Words of Affimation/Receiving Gifts (tied)

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    Mine:

    10 Physical Touch
    9 Quality Time
    8 Words of Affirmation
    3 Acts of Service
    0 Receiving Gifts

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    Quote Originally Posted by cfs1992 View Post
    Mine:

    10 Physical Touch
    9 Quality Time
    8 Words of Affirmation
    3 Acts of Service
    0 Receiving Gifts
    I sometimes get quality time and acts of service reversed, depending on my mood. I just think it shows someone truly cares about me if they pay attention to things I actually need.

    Words of affirmation tends to be lower for me because while I don't like to be verbally abused, I know that any jerk can say any old crap that sounds pretty and it doesn't mean he loves me or is going to behave in a loving manner toward me.

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    8 Words of Affirmation
    10 Quality Time
    0 Receiving Gifts
    4 Acts of Service
    8 Physical Touch
    There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
    -Jim Morrison

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    i love the link.

    it wasn't underlined though so that was confusing...

    me:

    1. quality time
    2/3. words of affirmation / physical touch
    4. acts of service
    5. gifts

    quality time is so above and beyond the rest. it could almost stand alone. and i think with words of affirmation, the tone is really important. i don't need many words of affirmation - in fact i really hate when someone overdoes it - but every once in a while, at the right place and time, they're so meaningful.

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    I remembered what happened in the function analysis thread. Also, I had my own troubles with this issue in another thread until someone explained it to me.

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    lol yes. you'd think physical touch wouldn't be so important to us, sensotarded as we apparently are

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    10 Quality Time
    10 Physical Touch
    4 Acts of Service
    3 Words of Affirmation
    3 Receiving Gifts

    i want to do the test for children.
    every normal man must be tempted, at times,
    to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag,
    and begin slitting throats.
    h.l. mencken

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmie Dearest View Post
    I remembered what happened in the function analysis thread. Also, I had my own troubles with this issue in another thread until someone explained it to me.
    um...i hate to admit it but for a sec i was like okay...where is it? because i thought it would be under your big huge text...
    There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
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    haha mmhmm that made me want to do the kids' test. so i did.

    3 Words of Affirmation
    8 Quality Time
    4 Receiving Gifts
    2 Acts of Service
    3 Physical Touch

    realization: i really like/d presents from my parents.

    i think it dropped in ranking cause now i'm a big girl and can buy what i want for myself!


    ps lady x don't feel bad. i was serious when i said i was a little confused because it wasn't underlined. i really was.

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