Hey all INFJ lady here with a dilemma and was hoping you could help me
So i've been close friends with an ENFP guy for over a year now and recently he confessed to having strong feelings for me (not love) but i don't feel the same, i simply see him as a friend and was honest to him about that. But it's like he's taking no for answer and it's frustrating because when it comes to my emotions i'm very sure of them and i highly doubt they'll change(i told this to him too). My dilemma is how can i get it through to him without messing up our friendship? I really value him as a friend but it's beginning to tire me out .
Also this actually has more to do with how ENFP's deal with romantic attraction, so any insight into that would be helpful too.