Lily flower
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I was wondering if other INFJ's have trouble with change and adventure. I have a sense of adventure when it comes to some social things - like the fact that I was a foster parent for many years, dealt with gang members, strippers, violent people, etc.
But as far as geography and institutions - I always feel like I want everything to stay the same. I like Chrismas traditions to stay the same. I like people to stay in one area and not move. I want the camp I went to as a child to stay exactly the same - no new pool, no new cabins.
If I have to go somewhere new, for a job interview or something similar I always drive there the day before. And I hate it when my friends want to drive "into the city" to do something new. It makes me feel very tense.
Do other INFJ's have the same problem with change?
But as far as geography and institutions - I always feel like I want everything to stay the same. I like Chrismas traditions to stay the same. I like people to stay in one area and not move. I want the camp I went to as a child to stay exactly the same - no new pool, no new cabins.
If I have to go somewhere new, for a job interview or something similar I always drive there the day before. And I hate it when my friends want to drive "into the city" to do something new. It makes me feel very tense.
Do other INFJ's have the same problem with change?