manipulation and engaging with intent to manipulate are two very distinct things.
in fact, i think that's the difference between murder 1 and manslaughter.
quit being so pretentious and reflect.
i don't understand your point here, salome. i'm trying my best to explain why myself and others act the way we do, and you seem only to want to peg us as immoral intentional manipulators. but you haven't presented any real evidence of it, yourself; you've just been short-quoting my words and attempting to call me out on mistakes. did an ENFP purposefully lead you on? do you know this for a fact? where is your evidence, if you are convinced of your point? plus the poll means very little in this situation, because it's anonymous. we have no idea how valid those responses are, and they are all "i think" statements anyway. yet even if they were tangible evidence, the groups are tied at "they usually aren't aware" and "i'm unsure if they're aware". that doesn't prove your point at all, much less even support it.
it really just seems like you don't care what we think; you just want us to admit that we do something that, really, we don't habitually do, and even people of other types have affirmed that we don't do it. while i'll admit to every sin in the book i've committed, there's no way in hell i'm owning up to being something that i'm not or doing something that i don't.