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    Question Can you stand 8 years for a love

    I wanna open this Topic to ask all friends here.

    When you love a girl

    And you know, at this time, you can't bring her a good life, you can't give her a warm life, you can't insure a stable life for her.

    Can you stand 8 years without showing that you love her, to make change of yourself, to make you stronger, better, to have a firm stuff to face the life issue, and to invite her to your life,

    Can you do that?

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    To supplement my post:

    The fact is, I know her much. I and she, at this time, are like brother and sister (we pledge so). I know about her last relationship. I talk to her much about many things in life. She respect me, and I, I know that I fell in love with her... too much

    I want to say to her that I love her so much, as much as I can think of

    But the biggest thing stop me from doing that is not her refusal. The biggest one is me. I know at this time, at the age of 22, I can't bring her the stable life, I have nothing right now. I even cannot control my life well to talk about controling our life.

    That's why I can't reveal my love and have to prepare for our life.

    Dear my friends

    P/S: She is a INFJ girl
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    That sounds like a really bad idea, without knowing the specifics. What does she think? Are you even dating now? Does she know you exist?
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    Being ENTJ doesn't mean you have to be the perfect everything. If you want her, go get her and see if she reciprocates your affection. If not, at least you can stop wasting your time on someone who doesn't feel the same way. No fear.

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    As NF...I believe I could stand 800 years for a love.

    But what about building a life together?

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    Is it possible people really think like OP? Or it is a joke ? Really. :/

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    Why can't you be with her while you build toward that?

    My significant other and I have been dating for 6 years. He doesn't financially support me in any way, I don't live with him, etc..... We knew a long time ago we weren't going to get married until I complete school, and with me attending Graduate school, it may very well be another 3 years before we consider marriage at all.

    Why not work toward a stable life while simply dating? And in 8 years when you feel more capable of supporting her, do so.
    “Everybody has a secret world inside of them. All of the people of the world, I mean everybody. No matter how dull and boring they are on the outside, inside
    them they've all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.” -Neil Gaiman

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    I swear to god that Kiersey and his descriptions of types is more hazardous than helpful. Pfffftttt...Field Marshall.

    *rolls eyes*

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    It would have to be mutual with some type of connection throughout the eight years. A lot can change in eight years. It's always good to focus on making one's personal life stable and overall better. Without context for the OP it's impossible to answer because there are possibly a few scenarios where it would work, but more often it wouldn't.
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    I'm not kidding Petra Pan.

    The fact is, I know her much. I and she, at this time, are like brother and sister (we pledge so). I know about her last relationship. I talk to her much about many things in life. She respect me, and I, I know that I fell in love with her... too much

    I want to say to her that I love her so much, as much as I can think of

    But the biggest thing stop me from doing that is not her refusal. The biggest one is me. I know at this time, at the age of 22, I can't bring her the stable life, I have nothing right now. I even cannot control my life well to talk about controling our life.

    That's why I can't reveal my love and have to prepare for our life.

    Dear my friends

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