I have this friend whom I can't decide if she's ENFP or ENFJ. She's taken the test herself, as she's a psychology major, but even she can't decide. She always say's she feels very balanced all across the board. I originally pinned her for ENFJ... but now I'm contemplating ENFP for her as well. I have several ENFP friends and a couple of ENFJ friends, but she's one of the rare ones I feel caught in the middle with.
So, what are some good ways to determine? At least based upon observable behavior?
Would you say ENFJ's are more likely to be jokers than ENFP's, who may seem more serious? She's incredibly intelligent, very supportive and reaffirming, she's always turning everything into a joke and is great at making everyone laugh. How ever, it always seems as though she's got a lot of insight and knowledge, and can be very serious and firm in her thoughts, which are also always very well thought out. However, she considers herself a wild child and party girl, but a wild child and party girl with morals. Haha.