and I want to do something about it. He's a freshman in college and I'm a senior in highschool. We've known each other for four years and we are friends.
Does he like me back? I'm not sure. People have said in the past it definitely seems very promising, but nothing has happened. I DO know that he thinks very, very highly of me and respects me as a person. At the very least, we have potential.
I indirectly found out if I asked him to a dance, he'd say yes. I think asking a graduate to a dance demonstrates, "Hey, I like you," and for that reason I think it's a good sign that he won't say no. (As an INTP, he's not the kind of person who will go to something just so he doesn't hurt your feelings.)
If we go to the dance together and things seem to be going well, I was thinking about putting all of my cards on the table. I mean, I don't want to leave for college without thinking that I gave it my best effort. I was withholding it before because I wanted to wait for him to come around, but maybe I need to be more aggressive.
I just don't know if that's a good idea. :/ Any thoughts? I can give more information if needed, I just didn't want to ramble too much. XD