Brooding about a person I have been pining for for years had finally come to fruition in that I found out -why- she was so attractive for what I could perceive as 'no reason.'
She has a je ne sais quoi that stemmed from a dissonance in how she was and how people perceived her. This made her attractive to a lot of guys, but they wouldn't really express it because they felt a sort of mental vertigo. A kind similar to what a person feels when they meet an actor face to face. You think you know the actor from what they were on the screen, but then their true self comes in and scatters it.
Then started thinking about the other INFJ female I know in person (My ENTP cousin's fiancee, go figure ) and realized she had that sort of thing too, however she played videogames so we had a common interest that could bridge those stormy waters of Cogni'Diss. Also she was quite solidly taken (Also a good 6 years my senior) so I didn't even let any thoughts of the relationship persuasion creep in.
That leads to these questions, one to INFJ females and one to those who know them.
1) (This one might be answered in other threads) INFJ females: Do people seem to act odd around you? Not necessarily obviously, but that you can tell that they treat you differently than to other people? Heck, INFJ males, do you notice that sort of thing?
2) Non INFJs: How do you perceive INFJs? Are they any different? I am not asking this in an empirical-logical way of the 'Well they're human so they arent' persuasion. I want to know if they seem to have something about them that makes them SEEM different even if they aren't.
This is a social puzzle that pulled me back after a long hiatus. Sorry, but you folks will just have to deal with me some more
Posting a Eureka Moment at 3 AM FTW