If you would just agree to be ESTP, then the whole doing, promoting, negotiating trip you've been working on this teacher wouldn't have to be out there marring the fine INTJ brand we've all got going back here.
It's all the integrity and the feeling that's screaming iz not INTJ. You've got the feeling out there, demanding attention, expecting reciprocation. It's all floating around the place, meant to dictate to this poor excuse for an educator that she's supposed to meet you half way. (And then you close the trap and she's suckered into doing the right thing.)