Human beings in general are all partly petty, conceited, judgmental, blind to their own faults and act like...well ...turds. Only a few people do so most of the time, very few very enlightened individuals almost never, but the absolute vast majority of us pretty frequently. I's ok. though. It's just how we are. Some are just more confused than most and really taxing to everyone to be around, and/or dangerous. When they are woven into the fabric of your life through blood or work etc. it gets difficult. I personally have been the biggest turd when I've had a temporary lack of faith in my own values and beliefs. It's derailed me every time and I've gone a bit reckless. Maybe these are INFJs in Ni denial???