What I usually read about infj's is that they're able to relate and talk to people. (One site even said they were the most extroverted of all introverts). I feel that I am able to relate to people, I've very empathetic.
But as far as cognitive functions go, I'm sp/so/sx. Meaning I'm weak at talking to people in a group as well as one-on-one.
This two pieces of info seem to conflict to me - unless it's a common issue for INFJs. Does anyone else have this? Or can someone explain how both these are true at the same time?