I just realised my last post encouraged maintaining idealists beliefs and hopes, but you know I generally believe realism is just a socially acceptable form of pessimism. I don't care for reality checks or being realistic. It's not in allignment with who I am and it always feels like I'm at odds with myself. I don't think there's anything wrong with reaching for the stars even if it seems foolhardy or the odd blow strikes a bit harder than it should. Just get back up at the end of the day and keep striving for whatever others think is crazy. I don't think NFs are capable of doing otherwise. It rots their souls.