agreed. the biggest thing for me is seeing how much i can enjoy the values of Fi types, how much it helps me see the world in a different way. you can see it in the music of infps and the actual living musicality of enfps.Fe is utterly amazing. Like some sort of super power, from my perspective-but a few requests:
1) Fe users please do be confused when we cant replicate this. Because we dont use Fe. It isnt "obvious" and we arent "rude", we just communicate differently and have a different worldview.
2) Admit the legitimacy of alternate worldviews as state as done. Recognize and convey to us know that while we may never agree-we still are not morally flawed or broken because we see the world differently.
3) Take a moment between perceiving what we say or do-and pause-and recognize there is a high certainty that you will misread what we said and attribute motives we never had. Of course you dont mean to do this, your intents are almost always well founded-but learn to pause as the Fi users learned to pause last year.
4) recognize that what feels to be common sense is Fe working with your perceiving functions-thus "everybody knows this"=FAIL.