Not sure if there's a difference between the way that ENFJs and INFJs bond with other people, but I find whenever I am connecting with others, I tend to feel as if I am drawing them inwards to me, trying to get to know them and what makes them tick. I don't feel an outward merging with the other person, rather it feels like I am bringing the person into my field of view and gauging them on their interests, what their facial expressions tell me, tone of voice, and analyzing how each thing indicates how they feel. Whenever I approach a person, I feel like I want to get to know them, but it's not like I reach out to them, rather I leave the option open for them to come to me.
Do ENFJs experience an opposite feeling when bonding with someone, like they are reaching out to the other person to accommodate their needs, open up themselves to embrace the other person's aura, where they feel like they are zoning into the other person, but it's more of an outward projection than feeling like they are drawing another person towards them? Or do you guys draw people towards you?
Been curious to see the difference between INFJ and ENFJ style social interaction.