My first time posting on here. I've got to say, this Jungian Psychology has hit me like a ton of bricks, and I find myself blissfully immersed in gathering information on what makes the mind work, and how to use those processes to help mankind reach a new state of... awesomeness. (Is it a big shock that I'm male INFJ??)
One of the more interesting aspects of typology is how it relates to romantic endeavors of the kissy-kissy variety lol. I feel this strange..."inward tension" that seems to draw me into myself as opposed to being extremely outward...especially when it comes to expressing feelings...which is not so comfy since i tend to feel a LOT of stuff internally, and it seems like I have to contain everything. I scored very expressed introvert (80) and am wondering if that is why..
What I found is that I reaaaaly like extraverted women who initiate and express initial interest and "bring me out" to a degree without being extremely draining. After, I am fully sure a girl likes me, it's easier to become comfortable and "let go" but it's more of an external confirmation of my intuition i suppose. I've found that females can't deal with my quiet demeanor and perhaps require a more "energetically aggressive" type..
My question is for you lovely ENF types that are fond of INF types....what is it that makes you attracted to us? Additionally, for those of you E's that have had intimate connections with the INF's, who engaged first in displaying interest? I'm interested in getting multiple perspectives.
Take Care and thanks!
Take a look at this example:
Opposites Attract-INFJ-ENFJ.mov - YouTube
Her bubbly and caring attitude totally makes me