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    I had an ENFP try to pursue me before. I'm not sure why but he was one of the few people who I felt an instant connection with after getting to know each other for a short while. Maybe because we both seemed so easy going and non judgemental towards each other and it was just a peaceful energy between us. He made it easy for me to share my thoughts with him, as he seemed genuine, accepting and very interested. So I would share what I thought openly, and I think that made him even more interested because I opened up and talked honestly about how I felt. Maybe he liked me because I was sort of a puzzle to him

    He was waaay more outgoing than me and incredibly silly with Everyone which is different from me... but it was very weird how I felt automatically comfortable with him. I guess most NFs just ooze that warm, acceptance kind of thing that makes it easy for you to open up and share? He just seemed open-minded and nice -shrugs-. He was too outgoing for me though :p so I don't think I could have handled being in a relationship with him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovereeses View Post
    Not necessarily, I just think that the 2 INFJs I dated desired a tragic life, because they thought it was cooler/more beautiful, or whatever. I appreciate emotional depth, but only when it's real, not attention seeking.
    That sounds type 4-ish on the Ennegram.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
    That sounds type 4-ish on the Ennegram.
    Yeah, I think that the first guy I mentioned was type 5w4, and the second guy was definitely type 4.
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    I can't speak about all INFPs, but I can tell you why I'm attracted to the INFP I'm involved with now.

    He is:
    - very accepting and nonjudgmental - I feel comfortable and free to open up to him
    - exceptionally KIND to EVERYONE - It moves me
    - extremely bright and insightful - We have wonderful conversations on a variety of subjects
    - loving - He makes me feel loved
    - quirky/kinky - He's a little different - not a conformist - how refreshing
    - calm, yet intense - He is a very calm and soothing presense, but also very intense under the surface (esp. when angry - it turns me on)
    - intuitive - He picks up on the fine nuances of communication - he helps me understand myself better
    - great communicator - and with us the conversation just flows effortlessly
    - humor - he has a dry sense of humor like me; we like to laugh about the absurdities of life
    - trustworthy - he is dependable, thoughtful, responsible
    - Honesty/Integrity - he is genuine and sincere. I value his authenticity.
    - self confident - He is very self assured and has faith in his own abilities and areas of competence
    - sexy - Well, I think so.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kyuuei View Post
    I think there's a piece of them that makes me feel safe being myself.. Frequently, I adapt to my environment, and sometimes that makes me feel like I'm never 100% myself. I think that INFPs have an extremely open-armed, accepting way of naturally saying "It's okay. Act hyper one minute and chill the next. I won't treat you any differently." It's extremely comforting to be able to be different facets of myself without someone getting alarmed or weirded out by it. I like how calm and indifferent they can be to the outside world.. it's very soothing. They're like 'base' in a game of tag. I can run all over the place, but once I get back to base, it's all calm again.



    Quote Originally Posted by ilovereeses View Post
    (instead of showering me with praise, which I find to be smothering).
    i just want to point this out... i don't like being showered with praise either... it's such a turn-off to me when the other person is very solicitous with compliments. i very much dislike relationships where the other person just wants me. i think that there should be some struggle to it... some mystery and discovery... INFs have that

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    Quote Originally Posted by Onceajoan View Post
    - quirky/kinky - He's a little different - not a conformist - how refreshing
    - calm, yet intense - He is a very calm and soothing presense, but also very intense under the surface (esp. when angry - it turns me on)
    Kinky & his anger turns you on?

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    Quote Originally Posted by skylights View Post
    I think that there should be some struggle to it... some mystery and discovery... INFs have that
    Yeah, that's the best part; the chase! XD
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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovereeses View Post
    Yeah, that's the best part; the chase! XD
    'The chase' seemed extraordinarily long to me. There were several times I thought 'gee...just throw me a scrap whydon'tya'. Ahhh...and one day he did! The only thing...is that it wasn't a scrap...but rather the entire feast. Seriously it was terribly overwhelming. It was as if one day I was a stranger...and then the next we were married (?) A year of aloof ...and then one day possessive and jealous. I didn't navigate the situation well as it was almost scary. Again...it was a total shock to my system.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnights View Post
    It was as if one day I was a stranger...and then the next we were married (?) A year of aloof ...and then one day possessive and jealous.
    That happened to me with an ESFJ. That chase was 3 years...way too long.
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