[NF] Which NF type is most likely to get butthurt?

[animenagai]

mint chocolate

Are you half black half Irish or something?

 

[Sniffles]

NFPs.

 

[skylights]

Are you half black half Irish or something?

nah, i just like mint chocolate.

 

[Mr. Sherlock Holmes]

Probably INFP because they have so much Fi, and if unbalanced, they can be very upset by slight offenses to their values.

 

[Such Irony]

Well INFJs have inferior Se and ENFPs have demonic Se so therefore these types are most likely to accidentally bump into things and thus get their butts hurt.

 

[Random Ness]

For example, I've had more than one INFJ on this forum assume I was dead serious and being mean, when in reality I was just joking or teasing.

That was our first interaction.

 

[William K]

Sticks and stones may break my bones,
but words can't hurt my butt...

 

[OrangeAppled]

What is the etymology of "butthurt" anyway? Do I want to know?

 

[Thalassa]

Edgar might be able to tell you. Have you seen his avatar?

 

[Hopelandic]

Fi looks behind actions to see motivations. I can take a lot of shit from people who I know and trust.

I think enfj. I think a lot of -actions- can set fe types off. It doesn't matter about your intentions or not, an action is an action.

Every person is different of course. I know some dom. thinking persons that get more butthurt than nf's.

 

[Synapse]

Can we please stop voting for INFP so much.
My non-butthurt tolerance ratio is conditional.

 

[animenagai]

Can we please stop voting for INFP so much.
My non-butthurt tolerance ratio is conditional.

Honestly, from everything that I've read, I think that the INFP constant butthurt is a myth, blown out of proportion of what people think INFP's are. I probably have more anal bleeding than you

 

[Biaxident]

... I probably have more anal bleeding than you

Fascinating.

Tell us more. With pictures please...


FYI. Lube makes such things easier.

 

[Unkindloving]

I'd say there are different kinds of butthurt.

INFPs always strike me as more of the "BAW" butthurt.
ENFJs strike me as "GRR" butthurt
ENFPs and INFJs get this weird "BAW/GRR" mixture.

I know, my technical terms are so eloquent

 

[Ginkgo]

I'd say there are different kinds of butthurt.

INFPs always strike me as more of the "BAW" butthurt.
ENFJs strike me as "GRR" butthurt
ENFPs and INFJs get this weird "BAW/GRR" mixture.

I know, my technical terms are so eloquent

 

[Tiltyred]

I agree with Biaxident that you have to matter in my world first. Part of that is that I weed out people who say the wrong thing more than once or who skirt the edge of hurting my feelings too often, or who play with my emotions (I pity da fool); if I think they're like to give me a pain in my ass, I don't take up with them in the first place. However. If I do take up with them and they are pains in the ass, yeah, I get butthurt. Because then they are RUINING my PLAN, dammit. Damn them. Damn them all.

 

[Esoteric Wench]

I agree with Biaxident that you have to matter in my world first. Part of that is that I weed out people who say the wrong thing more than once or who skirt the edge of hurting my feelings too often, or who play with my emotions (I pity da fool); if I think they're like to give me a pain in my ass, I don't take up with them in the first place. However. If I do take up with them and they are pains in the ass, yeah, I get butthurt. Because then they are RUINING my PLAN, dammit. Damn them. Damn them all.

Perhaps unintentional, Tiltyred, but this is one of the best articulations of INFJ angst that I've ever read. I think of that great exchange from "The Hunt for Red October":

Adm. Painter: What's his plan?
Jack Ryan: His plan?
Adm. Painter: Russians don't take a dump, son, without a plan.​

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rb0QLxcvowk

^^^^^^
Can anyone tell me how to correctly embed this YouTube video? I've been trying to get this link to work for 15 minutes. The youtube button doesn't seem to be working. (Or I'm doing it wrong.) There's a great 7 second clip on youtube of this exchange at the above link. Until I get it fixed, you'll have to click on the link to see it. Thanks in advance for your help!

INFJs ALWAYS have a plan. I've learned the best way for me, an ENFP, (who often has no specific plan) to be a good friend to an INFJ is to give them some groan time when I do something that changes the INFJ plan. At least this works for me. Seems like if I give them "groan time" they're OK with a change in plan if they judge it a good change. But if I don't give them time, they dig in their heels.

Not sure that this is directly on point to the topic of butthurtness, but is interesting nonetheless.

 

[skylights]

ew - i think the coding's changed - now it's

[ video = youtube ; Rb0QLxcvowk ] URL [ / video ]

minus all the spaces, of course

INFPs always strike me as more of the "BAW" butthurt.
ENFJs strike me as "GRR" butthurt
ENFPs and INFJs get this weird "BAW/GRR" mixture.

that's pretty accurate

 

[Esoteric Wench]

Awwww..... Thank you Skylights!

I don't know how you know about the new code, but I genuflect in your general direction.

 

[SilkRoad]

I'd say there are different kinds of butthurt.

INFPs always strike me as more of the "BAW" butthurt.
ENFJs strike me as "GRR" butthurt
ENFPs and INFJs get this weird "BAW/GRR" mixture.

I know, my technical terms are so eloquent

Eloquent or not, I think you're pretty much spot on there...