I think that ENFPs do read meaning into EVERYTHING. My experience has been it depends on whether or not I'm judging what I'm observing via my Fi or Te that has a radical effect on how I respond.
If I judge with Fi, then I sometimes overly moralize things and if I judge something as hurtful I get WAY hurt. If I judge it as loving, I feel WAY love.
If I judge something with my Te, I tend to have a "No shit, huh" kind of response that allows me to stay cool and collected.
(God I both love and hate the word butthurt all at the same time. Or perhaps I hate myself for liking it so much.)