^^^ makes sense and i should clarify that the way i meant it was that the infjs i know seem extremely sensitive...i didn't mean it in a bad way but maybe i don't really get the full meaning of the term.
There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
Hey, I'm willing to say that I get butthurt. Esoteric's right though, I can take a joke, so if other NF's get butthurt over little jabs, I guess I'm not as sensitive in comparison. I dunno really, all the other NF's can be so private. You would think that ENFP's aren't the only ones so open with their emotions.
Chimera of Filth
A gruesome beast with dripping flesh
Clings to me as a sick fixture
My throbbing heart it gnawed apart
It stalks and hunts me through mirrors
As I've expressed in the past, I am not a fan of this term; why does someone else get to judge what is legitimate for you to be upset about? But I know this is a joke thread....so I'll play along.
I vote the N-doms of the NFs. More likely to read into things, IMO. My real life experience is that ENFPs get pouty easily, but then get over it relatively quickly; and INFJs blow up out of nowhere & hold some ridiculous grudge for years, often over something they've done themselves (can dish it out, but not take it). I consider that the most "butthurt"; they set the tone, after all....
INFPs get really, really quiet when hurt, and if it's noted, then people often don't know why & tend to assume it is something more frivolous than it really is (which may seem "butthurt" to them). If an INFP snaps back, there's a greater chance they think they are playing your game, not necessarily hurt (NTs aren't the only sardonic ones...). Sometimes people see hostility when it's just a passionate interest in a topic; NPs like to consider different perspectives indepth, and may even play devil's advocate with people.
"Charlotte sometimes dreams a wall around herself. But it's always with love - So much love it looks like everything else. Charlotte Sometimes - So far away, glass sealed and pretty." - The Cure
Based on my own personal experiences I voted ENFP. Also, I would say NTs are more sensitive than NFs and get butthurt way more easily.
To hurt an NF you actually need to violate some ethic or code that a lot of thought and consideration went into.
NT's get hurt because you simply don't agree with them and thus their fragile little egos bleed all over the place.
I'm gonna agree with this. NTs have a coniption fit if you trample their ego. Either that, or they get all huffy and take their toys away and don't want to play with you anymore.
I've been accused of being "butthurt" on this forum when I was just trying to have a discussion, and got annoyed that the person couldn't seem to actually defend their position.
I do get butthurt sometimes, though. But I think anyone who actually is offended by the word "butthurt" is more likely to get butthurt, no matter what their type is.
"Sentiment without action is the ruin of the soul." - Edward Abbey
In my experience ENFPs tend to get butthurt more. As I think about it though, I don't really think there's an objective measure of butthurtness - it's more like a chemical reaction depending on what two ingredients are mixed together.
LOL! Fidelia said BUTTHURTNESS. This pleases me very much.