Huh? Where the heck did you get that idea? You're way off.
I'm 34. Until about year ago, I'd only ever loved one man. I'd loved him for 12 years, though he'd never loved me back. I tried and tried and tried to get over him, but how does one stop love?
If anything, I have the opposite problem. The best I've found is that I can redirect love from a romantic nature to a friendship/brotherly nature. To stop loving entirely would be like carving out my heart.