first ivy said i'm supposed to introduce myself.
then the faq's said that i really shouldn't start a new thread if i could help it.
i'm in the middle of an nf muddle/moment ...hahahahahaha ... um .. ok..on i go.
so after close to 15 years of marriage i think it's impossible.
in one of the earlier posts ... an intj said that intj's live on their islands and sometimes other people are invited in and sometimes not and only for a limited time.
well i think that intj's live in a holodeck world (star trek the next generation fan here .... ) ... and they're so busy being inside it they never want to come out and play ( or play in someone else's holodeck). And they don't want to be interupted in theirs because unless they've made special provisions against interuptions the whole thing comes crashing down....
ok enough ranting.... (although ofcourse i could do more)
on the other hand ... an intj is wonderful to have around when i need to be by myself and yet have someone in the same house. He gives me tonnes of space to think/feel/be.
but sometimes i have to wonder what the point of a relationship/marriage is.