What are the charateristics of an ENFJ in public? They are the ones passing out cupcakes or cookies, they just baked the night before, for everyone in the office.
How would an ENFJ personals ad typically read? Most don't need personals, they have lots of options. The ones that do, will have perfect grammar, be earnest, and mention something about their social activism.
Where do ENFJs like to hang out? At the surprise party their throwing for one of their friends or colleagues.
How might one break the ice with an ENFJ? Smile at them, they'll come over and find out all about you.
Whatever you do, don't act rude even in jest. They'll give you the benefit of the doubt later if you establish a relationship of some sort, but don't even think of risking it before then. Imagine what a rainbow would do in a given situation, and do it.
Once they figure out eventually, that you really are an asshole - it will be too late. They'll forgive anything then and delude themselves into thinking you're still a rainbow. This will happen usually after their first orgasm - sometimes earlier, if you compliment them frequently about something they take in pride in. It can't just be half ass compliments either - you have to put some thought into it. ESFJs you can just throw them around willy nilly. ENFJs might catch on, that your just trying to get ass.