As a female ENFJ i can relate to alot of things in this post, especially the random noises and always being the life of every party or whatever get together i'm at on that day...
What i will say about being a female ENFJ, is that my being able to focus my attention on people (especially the males) is sometimes a blessing and a curse... It usually ends in majority of my male friends taking an interest in me and wanting to take things to the 'next level"..... When this first began happening to me, i was always lost and confused like "WHAT!? Where did that come from?" or me feeling some sort of way... Now that i am older and i look back and even now... i can see how my flirting and sexual induendos could lead a person to the conclusion that i was interested in them. It is easy for me now to see how i can manipulate a person into feeling some kind of way or feeling the way that i want them to feel about something. And, it is because of that.. that i now realize that a bad ENFJ is a REAL THREAT!!
As far as characteristic's here are a few:
Big smiles or a michevious grin that is always there.
Always willing to encourage and see the good in others.
Always excited and enthusiastic about the future!
Huge flirt without even knowing it sometimes, mixed in with sexual induendos.
Always the life of the party.
Always has a story to tell with over-embellished characteristics for your entertainment.
Extremely forgiving and understanding of others and their situations.
Has a knack for knowing how others feel or think withouth them even saying
And those are just a FEW!!
I love being an ENFJ, i sometimes get the feeling that people don't always "get" me... and that's ok and sometimes that is exactly what i am aiming for. I even sometimes get the feeling that people are drawn to me because of that ; )
I love it!!