In public with strangers, I actually dont make eye contact often and I wear a very firm te mask that keeps people from approaching me. I give signals of dont touch.
However whenever I read emails from my boyfriend or I drink a lot, then suddenly men start watching me. I cant keep the Te mask up any longer. They say things like "How can you be so cute?"
It freaks me out so I leave. However in the day to day, I sometimes feel like an Fi water sprinkler because I walk from building to building and sort of sprinkle Fi at people. Like little touches to let them know somebody cares about them. ..... Like maintenance touches? I dunno. Once I know people just a bit, I am comfortable around them and I make them laugh and smile as they seem so bummed out. Like an Fi water sprinkler to give their Fi just a bit of a boost, so they remeber things dont suck as bad as they thought they did. I did once have a bengledeshi stalker who wrote me post cards and poetry and wanted to fall in love in the rain with me, he knew my schedule and followed me from class to class, but I dont think he was a real stalker, just a really sweet newly immigrated ENFP guy who didnt quite understand american social norms.