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[ENFJ] Are ENFJs Kissable?

TopherRed

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Not the goofy kind of ENFJ Heather? :newwink: :shrug: If I can't laugh at me, nobody else will.
 

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weeellll...I actually did tell my friends "happy meow-loween" (from lolcats) this past weekend
 

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At least you didn't stay at a Holliday Inn Express last night. :)
 

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In answer to the original question, ENFJ's are not only kissable, they are amazing - hot, deep, intense, charismatic, loving, caring, gentle, inspiring. Who could ask for anything more?
 

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Every time I see Jude Law and Gwyneth Paltrow together on-screen, that to me is an Fe and Fi primary. Seems rather natural on many levels. Loved him with Nicole Kidman too in "Cold Mountain".

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This has been a most interesting thread. Most interesting. *sets phaser to stun and hunts*
 

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^Yes good read !

ENFJ/INFP

Fe and Fi have an inspirational effect on each other.
 

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Yeah one of my best friends is an ENFJ and the ladies really like him. He's smart, friendly, nice, funny... he's like the Jesus type ENFJ and seems to tick all the right boxes. I can't say I've ever been really attracted to an ENFJ though. A lot of people can't tell (not people here on MBTI though), but they're one of the hardest people to really get to know. I need more than the classic bf/gf criterion for me to be really attracted to someone. I need genuine communication, expression and understanding, even if it's about all your weaknesses. Heck, I find that very human and pleasant for the most bit. Probably a type 4 thing.
 

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:yes: I'm actually going through a phase now where I'm much more secure in who I am, which, strangely, makes me more closed off--meaning, unless we develop a closeness of some kind, I am not obliged to spill everything about myself to you, or to anyone else. I often see this as a positive in an ENFJs life, because that sort of "forced openness so people will like me" isn't healthy...and provides little guarantee that people will like you.

Anyway, my two cents about that. *re-railing*.
 

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So a rerailing question...has anybody here ever actually kissed an ENFJ? :waggles eyebrows::sets phasers to stun-ning:
 

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So a rerailing question...has anybody here ever actually kissed an ENFJ? :waggles eyebrows::sets phasers to stun-ning:

Yes, It's very very good, if a bit sloppy with enthusiasm. But I like it that way. :newwink:
 

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Yes, It's very very good, if a bit sloppy with enthusiasm. But I like it that way. :newwink:

"A bit sloppy with enthusiasm" is EXACTLY how I'd imagine a kiss with an ENFJ to be like!

But overall I'm pretty sure it depends on the ENFJ in question.
 

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ENFJs kiss YOU, not the other way around.

I'm halfway serious. :cool: If they took the initiative, then they're as approachable as can be. It's only my experience, but it seems like they can also easily snub people. Almost skittish if they're put in the position of being wooed or on the receiving end. Yet intense if it's their doing. Maybe that's a lot of people though..
 

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To the OP,

The answer is Yes, you are kissable.
 

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*taps fingers together evilly, George Burns* Exxxxcellent. (and thank you) :)
 

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I have kissed myself. I must say that I was delightful. I like how I lead with my lower lip and bite my chin. *shines fingernails on shirt vaingloriously*
 

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ENFJs kiss YOU, not the other way around.

Almost skittish if they're put in the position of being wooed or on the receiving end. Yet intense if it's their doing.

Why is that? I have always found that irritating!
 

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Why is that? I have always found that irritating!

It's difficult to find someone as intense as we are, so if he's got more intensity than me, he better bring it! I like being taking off guard. I don't like controlling the physical aspect of romantic interactions - in fact, it's pretty much a turn off if I have to keep taking the initiative.
 

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We are definitely the Kisser not the Kissee...

But "sloppy with enthusiasm"?!?

I object
 
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