I'm halfway serious. If they took the initiative, then they're as approachable as can be. It's only my experience, but it seems like they can also easily snub people. Almost skittish if they're put in the position of being wooed or on the receiving end. Yet intense if it's their doing. Maybe that's a lot of people though..
“I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
― Georgia O'Keeffe
It's difficult to find someone as intense as we are, so if he's got more intensity than me, he better bring it! I like being taking off guard. I don't like controlling the physical aspect of romantic interactions - in fact, it's pretty much a turn off if I have to keep taking the initiative.
eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
AIS Holland code