From when I started flirting he became more quiet and distant, avoidant... our last convo, he was silent I asked why are you so quiet? he said because, the computer is slow today... I said 'maybe it's the weather,' and he replies--'maybe its me'(meaning him). ? And, as it so happens I read into everything he says, he told me 'not to analyze my work so much,' which I thought was odd, its like he was telling me just go away... So he may have a girlfriend.
I've already told him I liked him, kind of, to which he froze up... I will make an attempt bur only with the gf thing in mind... no sense in getting worked up in someone who isn't available, right.