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    Off topic...but I like that he knows he is INFJ. Of course if he is some sort of employment officer this makes sense...but the 2 INFJ males in my life were like INFJ WTF? I suspected with both. One...I work with & we just happened to have a workshop involving 'Type'...and the other I had to beg (& I mean beg) to take the full-length MB.

    I just think it is helpful to have this kind of knowledge (obviously as I'm part of this site).

    If you are able to come back & answer...how did it come up in conversation. Was he just like..."I'm INFJ"...?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peguy View Post
    I don't know about other INFJs, but I strongly object to that!! I highly resent being backed into a corner.
    Oh honey, you know I was just joking... And I object to your objections!
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    I'd write him a note going: 'Thanks for everything you've done for me. Too bad it means the end of seeing you..it brightened my day. If you want though...give me a call some time ' [add number]

    It gives him time to process, leaves the ball in his corner, not putting him under pressure and makes it very clear you'd be interested so he doesn't have to doubt that. It's also light hearted enough and if he doesn't call...well, then you have your answer without awkwardness
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    Just call & ask. We introverts can run, even when the situation is a good one. He may feel that he will get in big trouble for dating a client, so congratulations, you are no longer a client. Go for it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Satine View Post
    I'd write him a note going: 'Thanks for everything you've done for me. Too bad it means the end of seeing you..it brightened my day. If you want though...give me a call some time ' [add number]

    It gives him time to process, leaves the ball in his corner, not putting him under pressure and makes it very clear you'd be interested so he doesn't have to doubt that. It's also light hearted enough and if he doesn't call...well, then you have your answer without awkwardness
    ^I think this is the safest and wisest option. If the dude INDEED likes you, he will definitely respond to that. If he doesnt respond, he probably: 1) is not interested 2) is unavailable and invested in someone else or 3) lacks some big man balls and why would you want a man like that?

    When you're giving a man THE HINT and an obvious one at that, if he likes you enough he WILL make a move.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Quay View Post
    I'm not a dude, but I appreciate straight-forwardness. ENFPs are very good at this, thus my ENFP husband.

    If you see him, ask him out...in my opinion anyway, but I'm a weird ass INFJ. The avoidance thing is something I have done (and still do) when I know someone likes me on any level, and I'm not sure how to reciprocate.
    I'm like this, too!

    Quote Originally Posted by Satine View Post
    I'd write him a note going: 'Thanks for everything you've done for me. Too bad it means the end of seeing you..it brightened my day. If you want though...give me a call some time ' [add number]

    It gives him time to process, leaves the ball in his corner, not putting him under pressure and makes it very clear you'd be interested so he doesn't have to doubt that. It's also light hearted enough and if he doesn't call...well, then you have your answer without awkwardness
    On my ENFP's last day of work, she said,"Hey you, come here!" And I didn't budge because I'm a weird ass INFJ but she walked to where I was and put her arm around my shoulders and said,"Keep in touch!" She did that right infront of my other colleagues who have a HUGE crush on HER. That left me with an idea that she wants to continue our friendship (at that time) and that's a relief from all the second-guessing. Satine's idea is great, too, and maybe you'd want to add,"Keep in touch", to the note.

    It'll probably take some time for him to reply to that if he's shy.

    Quote Originally Posted by thescientist View Post
    ^I think this is the safest and wisest option. If the dude INDEED likes you, he will definitely respond to that. If he doesnt respond, he probably: 1) is not interested 2) is unavailable and invested in someone else or 3) lacks some big man balls and why would you want a man like that?

    When you're giving a man THE HINT and an obvious one at that, if he likes you enough he WILL make a move.
    ^ What he said, too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Satine View Post
    I'd write him a note going: 'Thanks for everything you've done for me. Too bad it means the end of seeing you..it brightened my day. If you want though...give me a call some time ' [add number]

    It gives him time to process, leaves the ball in his corner, not putting him under pressure and makes it very clear you'd be interested so he doesn't have to doubt that. It's also light hearted enough and if he doesn't call...well, then you have your answer without awkwardness
    Excellent advice! Leave a note!

    Do something!

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    Quote Originally Posted by StarryKnights View Post
    Off topic...but I like that he knows he is INFJ. Of course if he is some sort of employment officer this makes sense...but the 2 INFJ males in my life were like INFJ WTF? I suspected with both. One...I work with & we just happened to have a workshop involving 'Type'...and the other I had to beg (& I mean beg) to take the full-length MB.

    I just think it is helpful to have this kind of knowledge (obviously as I'm part of this site).

    If you are able to come back & answer...how did it come up in conversation. Was he just like..."I'm INFJ"...?
    We were talking about careers, and what I wanted to do, versus, what I was doing, and intrest profiling, testing. He wanted me to take a holland code test, the Artistic, social, enterprising, thingy... to see where I was at... a standard thing they have you do... so anyhoo... I told him I was ASE, or ASI depending on my mood... and that also, I was an ENFP...
    and went into MBTI a bit. He said ohh ya, I remember taking that, I came out an INFJ. And he told me the careers associated with his personality type his college major and some of his further ambitions, (I asked him) he apparently loves books and reading... which I think is soooo sexy!

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    i have nothing smart to say, i just think this is adorable and wish you good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebe View Post
    Excellent advice! Leave a note!

    Do something!
    Oh I love your encouragement!
    I will do something I promise...
    Last edited by hermeticdancer; 10-29-2010 at 12:17 AM. Reason: tmi..oops

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