Just kidding (but not really). I value intelligence a lot, same with a sense of humor. I can't even think of a single friend of mine who I couldn't share some laughs with. Being slightly unrealistic and dreamy is also incredibly sexy to me. Those artsy chicks who are constantly int heir own head? Yum.
Chimera of Filth
A gruesome beast with dripping flesh
Clings to me as a sick fixture
My throbbing heart it gnawed apart
It stalks and hunts me through mirrors
.../casually deletes everything she originally put
Okay, Ukon. This is a thread about what we find attractive, not what our dream person is like. /cough
Attractive as in appearance, or attractive as in personality? I'll do both, I guess. Though appearance really doesn't matter to me all too well.
I like big butts and I cannot lie!
Legs. I like long, plump legs, or legs with honey-thighs. I like it when they aren't sticks and their legs actually touch.
Light muscles, for men.
A gentle face.
A bit of a tummy. It's cute, okay?
Flat tummies as well.
Nice sense of humour.
people who expect a change
who can't throw away their humanity
who stay idle in growth
who won't dirty their hands
those are the most terrifying of monsters
someone strong and supportive and even keeled. Can get things done. Take charge and decisive.
Looks: On the bigger and taller side with facial hair.
06/13 10:51:03 five sounds: you!!!
06/13 10:51:08 shortnsweet: no you!!
06/13 10:51:12 shortnsweet: go do your things and my things too!
06/13 10:51:23 five sounds: oh hell naw
06/13 10:51:55 shortnsweet: !!!!
06/13 10:51:57 shortnsweet: (cries)
06/13 10:52:19 RiftsWRX: You two are like furbies stuck in a shoe box
I need a mind that understands. Ni is attracted mainly to the mind. Then there are other little things... mutual attraction, humor, ease in communication, personality. I suppose these things are difficult to pick out at a glance.
Physical attractiveness is nice... but it's not something I require. All this makes me sound cold... but I do like hugs and kisses.
I could say that I'm only attracted to nebulous things in men but my husband and exes have for the most part been suspiciously good looking for that to be completely true. Maybe it's the inferior Se but looks don't hurt. Essence...in a nice wrapper.
Originally Posted by Domino
Agreed. The mental component, while very necessary (at least speaking for myself... I love-love a smart man...), isn't everything. There *must* be some all-systems fusion from the get-go. My kind of magic. The Piranha "it" factor.
I've tried that method of 'waiting it out' and it doesn't work. You can't make a whole relationship out of just one or two aspects. You have to have it all clicking into place.
I think intuition has played a big part when I've selected partners. I just know if it'll work out. When I was younger I made the mistake of not trusting my intuition and going with reason and it's bit me in the butt every time. My husband I just knew I was going to marry when I saw him.
Generally I've been attracted to the fun and zany yet deep extrovert and the mysterious brooding introvert. ;D