I agree to stop devaluing her feelings and perspective & incorporate a little organization into your life to appease her. Then, she should stop devaluing YOUR feelings & perspective (which, from your post, seems is happening also), and not be so uptight about drawers being left open (dear god, no! :gasp: :rolli. If she doesn't, then it's time to talk. Actually, you should talk anyway, particularly regarding the money, so you can find mutually agreed upon solutions. But yeah, compromise will be needed, and you may need to be the one to initiate it. However, don't be so accommodating that you allow your own needs to be trampled; this is really important for an INFP to remember.
This is because you don't understand the Fi mindset, and so you invalidate it. Funny, how Jung's description of Fi-doms mentions how Fe people & extroverts tend do that....Originally Posted by proteanmix
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