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    Default Do you feel like you're ugly?

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    Yeah I do at times. I've been single all my life, granted there were chances I didn't hop on because those girls didn't live up to my ideal of a perfect women (to this day, I feel like I owe those ladies something, I'm such a jackass). Physically, there are somethings that really hurt my self confidence. I have eczema and it was reaaaaally bad when I was a kid, which wasn't good for my development. I also have bad teeth and I'm only starting to get all those things fixed at the age of 22. Being poor doesn't help either as I really don't want to spend all that money on clothes. So... yeah
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    I think we all have those days. So yes, it happens.
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    I used to when I was younger. Other people told me I was ugly so many times I started believing it. When I look back now and I see those pictures, I actually see a very pretty girl, maybe even prettier than I am right now. It's just that you could just see the unhappiness I felt in those pictures. Nowadays I like the way I look. I think I can't complain (I know other people think differently about it, because they try to convince me I'm "fat" and stuff, but I like it).
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    No not on the outside, but sometimes i fell i am ugly on the inside.
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    I tend to think I am... my face is odd (not pretty or feminine really) and the features are really out of whack.

    I'm short, a little stumpy, and neither curvaceous or petite. I'm more... frumpy.

    I'm sure plenty of nf's who are 4s' relate to the sense of defectiveness. I think i'm quite ugly, but it doesn't really bother me to point it out any more. Some people will say i'm getting 'down on myself', but i'm not really, i'm merely pointing out that I have features which aren't harmonious, and people will either like and accept my features, or not like them, that's up to them. For myself, I see my appearance as something I can accept and move on from, or be caught up in, and I choose the former. I have no need to reject something I can't control (apart from body weight)! it's there, and simply a part of me it sustains my life, I owe it to treat it well.

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    Yeah, sure. Most of the time. Inside and out, no point in denying the facts. I consider feeling ugly far more worse than knowing that I am because there are days when knowing it doesn't really bother me, but feeling it makes things a lot worse. And I also know that I am a million times more critical of myself than anybody else ever could be. That's life.

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    I'm ok.

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    Feeling ugly is a societal stereotype laied on us. It's presence is everywhere and we have to share our daily lives with half-naked models on posters everywhere, who you have seen so often by now that they already became very boring. I reckon superficiality is a much deeper problem in America and people over the Ocean judge beauty far more often with the plain eye. This is a severe problem and if a beautiful soul, who I would describe nothing else but a beautiful person when talking about her, says something like this, we know we have come way too far:

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    Yeah, sure. Most of the time. Inside and out, no point in denying the facts. I consider feeling ugly far more worse than knowing that I am because there are days when knowing it doesn't really bother me, but feeling it makes things a lot worse. And I also know that I am a million times more critical of myself than anybody else ever could be. That's life.
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    Hm. Well, I wouldn't really say I am ugly (outside), though people don't seem to be too happy with my paleness (I am hearing comments all the time since I was a little child and it didn't change). My eye rings sometimes also look alerting even to myself. Then again I also don't know if I fit in the typical manly looking man image; by face I always looked younger than I was, I am physically not very strong / not very muscled, and I don't fit with 175cm into the all-overshadowing ideal of tall, strong men. So I guess I am not physically attractive / "hot" for every woman, but people didn't seem repelled by me either just by looks, and I don't call myself ugly.

    Inside? Uh, I guess I am not easy to handle, but not on purpose and usually I have good intentions, better than most people around me I would even say.

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