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    Senior Member tortoise's Avatar
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    Default Attraction versus connection

    This one is slightly doing my head in right now.

    The people I am most able to connect with (male or female) are of similar type to me, or at least NFP.

    However, the women I am most attracted to are not. They've all been NFJ, and I have a history of issues with trying to relate to these NFJ women.

    It's not about physical beauty -- I know some very beautiful NFP women who I find very attractive -- but there's something about the energy field of NFJ women that REALLY lights my fire, even though quite often they're not as physically attractive.

    This is frustrating because I want the fire-lighting attraction AND the NFP connection in the same package.

    Argh!

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    Just succumb to the ENFJ snugglefest and everything will be all right. :P

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    Senior Member tortoise's Avatar
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    Haha hope from the stars!

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    I was wondering how long it would take for someone to figure that out!

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    I am curious...

    In what way is connection easier for you with NFPs when compared to NFJs?

    My S.O. is ENFP, by the way.

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    Are we saying NFJ women aren't as beautiful as NFP women...?

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    Become a polygamist.
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