This one is slightly doing my head in right now.
The people I am most able to connect with (male or female) are of similar type to me, or at least NFP.
However, the women I am most attracted to are not. They've all been NFJ, and I have a history of issues with trying to relate to these NFJ women.
It's not about physical beauty -- I know some very beautiful NFP women who I find very attractive -- but there's something about the energy field of NFJ women that REALLY lights my fire, even though quite often they're not as physically attractive.
This is frustrating because I want the fire-lighting attraction AND the NFP connection in the same package.