[ENFP] Top ways to make an ENFP furious

[HotpinkHeatwave]

[ Idea stolen from DJAchtundvierzig. Thanks buddy. ]

Please know - these may be specific to me, I'll do my best to generalize and not personalize.

1. Threatening the well being of any who we really, really care for. (Immediate family, close friends.)

2. Knowingly 'ripping' on something that we have expressed a love for.

3. Telling us we do not have morals. Also, telling us we do not understand. (Usually, we do.)

4. Extreme arrogance/vanity/ignorance.

5. People who absolutely deny OTHER possibilities. (Religious extremists, teachers, etc.)

6. People who try to force their beliefs/ideas on us, when we have clearly stated our own firm beliefs/ideas.

7. Looking down upon us because we're disorganized, dreamers, eccentric, and sometimes zany. (May not apply to all.)



This is all I can think of for now. Feel free to add.

 

[Thalassa]

8. Ignore me when I want your attention. Especially without telling me WHY.

 

[HotpinkHeatwave]

8. Ignore me when I want your attention. Especially without telling me WHY.

Oh my god. That should be near to the top. I can't believe I forgot about that one. But yes, nothing upsets me more, than being ignored to the point where it is obvious.

 

[Lady_X]

agree to all of those and i'll add being controlling and petty.

 

[Udog]

9. Calling them out when they are clearly making BS excuses to justify something they did or want to do.

 

[Thalassa]

agree to all of those and i'll add being controlling and petty.

Yeah, very little makes me go from being relatively quiet and unassuming and easy to get along with to being a beligerent pest like a person who just walks into a room (literally ...or even metaphorically into a chat room...) and tries to be The Boss or run all over everyone else with no clear, rational motive.

 

[JocktheMotie]

9. Calling them out when they clearly are making BS excuses to justify something they did or want to do.

It's true.

10. Be indifferent to rainbows and unicorns.

 

[Thalassa]

11. Talk about killing or hurting cats.

 

[HotpinkHeatwave]

11. Talk about killing or hurting cats.

I can't agree with this one. I'm a very crude person.

However, I do not like dead baby jokes, for the most part.

 

[Thalassa]

I can't agree with this one. I'm a very crude person.

However, I do not like dead baby jokes, for the most part.

I don't mind jokes about dead babies, abortions, having sex with corpses, or any number of vile, horrible things, and I love horror movies.

But as soon as someone talks about putting a cat in the dryer, my heart darkens toward them.

 

[JocktheMotie]

I don't mind jokes about dead babies, abortions, having sex with corpses, or any number of vile, horrible things, and I love horror movies.

But as soon as someone talks about putting a cat in the dryer, my heart darkens toward them.

 

[Thalassa]

This is why I chose to push INTPs off a cliff.

 

[Moiety]

- Unwillingness to argue one's positions.
- Close minded-ness.

 

[ubee0173]

-getting pissed off at something we said/did without explaining why. usually pissing someone off (for me anyway) is unintentional and i would like to know how to not do it again!

-being mean to someone/something who wont/cant stand up for themselves. i.e., animal/child/elder abuse and whatnot.

 

[highlander]

Criticize them unfairly

 

[Thalassa]

-getting pissed off at something we said/did without explaining why. usually pissing someone off (for me anyway) is unintentional and i would like to know how to not do it again!

-being mean to someone/something who wont/cant stand up for themselves. i.e., animal/child/elder abuse and whatnot.

Emphatic yes to both.

 

[tortoise]

Oh my god. That should be near to the top. I can't believe I forgot about that one. But yes, nothing upsets me more, than being ignored to the point where it is obvious.

Yep! At the top!

 

[tortoise]

Being upset with me but not giving me the opportunity to explain and/or put things right. I usually want to put things right and can't stand to be told I'm an arsehole when I never actually mean to be one and will put it right if given the opportunity.

But sometimes there are people who will simply judge me and write me off without looking back.

 

[Esoteric Wench]

I LOVE this thread. I'll have to think about it a bit. But yeah... there are some good responses on here.

And that JocktheMotie cartoon was freakin' hysterical.

 

[ThatsWhatHeSaid]

You guys forgot one of the biggest ENFP pet peeves: burning their homes down and slaughtering their women and children! This always infuriates ENFPs beyond belief.