And frankly, I hate being control, though I have some bizarre urge to handle things if no one else will.
I think I act pretty J in real life in various ways, but it seriously appears that I have Fi rather than Fe.i always test INF too. at first i thought INFP but then when i was first learning about the functions i thought i was INFJ mostly because i am fairly clearly more N than F, and i have a few little latent J thought processes. but, complete lack of Ti. and later i realized i wasn't quite so hot on Ni or Fe either. i'm pretty happy with the ENFP label at this point, though. it's withstood self-questioning better than either INF type.
If I totally ignore function theory and embrace Kiersey, then I could be INFJ. I could probably even be Socionics INFj.
But according to MBTI and function theory? NO WAY. I'm so Fi it's obvious (which is decidedly not INFJ), and I'm not really passive enough to qualify as INFP, either.
WHAT DO YOU MEAN REACTIVE AND EMO!?!? :steam::steam: am not
It sucks, because I think boys I like notice it more than anybody.