As an ideal, it sounds nice, but, what I was aiming to get at, as per the intent of this thread - Fe/Fi gone awry
- that this way can allow for an emotional vampire to be born. Needing hits of emotions from others, to know you've affected someone emotionally, to be affected by someone emotionally - as some twisted way of getting off on such an emotional charge.
These certain people often SEEK OUT the "misunderstood", the "underdog", or at the worst, push someone to the fringes so that they BECOME misunderstood, and convince others and themselves that they're doing it to "help", to provide some sage guidance - when they're just really wanting to find a victim so they can play the hero/champion/wise saviour. Or simply to walk away with an emotional hit.
And, that's where I'm saying, don't use me and my emotional state to make it about you and your need to get the next "emotional fix". (you, ofc, not meaning you personally)