In using the rephrasing there, I was just providing a way of showing the poster that you heard them. I don't care if anyone agrees. It's just an acknowledgement of thoughts.
Perhaps it's obvious to you when you should speak up. It's when I didn't get the anticipated response of "Yes we will fix the safety issue" that I did a very Fi thing, I think, which was to feel righteously upset and take action.
Yes, yes it is. It's very hard to speak up. It was back then. Even here right now it is. Which is why I need you all to realize that. I don't put your Ti or Ni on the spot. Yet here I am, trying to give voice to something that's hard to do. I would like a little credit, and a little empathy along the way, to help encourage me.It's about speaking up. You value speaking up no matter what effect it might have.
So this leads me to believe maybe it is very hard for you to speak up.
Because it takes so much energy and courage to do it. You have no idea how draining even this conversation is to me. I'm not trying to be melodramatic about it, I'm just being real. I will literally be shaking after an emotional exchange.You want acknowledgement and recognition that you speak up.
Why is that so important to you?
Fi is like the shy kitten in the corner; you can't just stomp around to make it reveal itself.