i'm glad! and thanks for saying so. it means a lot to me and is helpful for me to know what works for you too.
i've been trying to change my language so that it's more neutral as well (note the typos from changing "you" to "they"... lol). sometimes, when i'm writing, i get flooded with emotion and then i read what i wrote and i realize that to me it feels passionate but it could seem overbearing for anyone who is on the receiving end. and sometimes i end up directing things at people when they're more global in nature. i mean to show how much i am genuinely interested, and i honestly get caught up in the artistic moment, and i end up shutting people out.
so, if anyone's reading that in any of my posts and feels that way, i apologize. it's much more about self-expression than anything directed towards you and i am working on being more aware of that.