I take much responsibility for them ending, and my partners also blame me.
So when do they take some responsibility?
For example, my ex wife would harp on and on about being honest and how important it was.. yet she hid something from me for weeks, something so very important to the point of life and death..literally! Then expected me to just accept her reasons. Her lies were always justified.
Yet I was the devil and my motivations were always inpure if I fibbed about my mood.