Recently I just discovered that I am a "downer". This was actually said by my friend's mom. And when she explained this to me I was strangely happy.
After this she thought I was crazy. Apparently, when someone gives me a compliment my reaction to it is...disturbed, at least that's what it seems like from her point of view. But when someone gives me something like, "Brittaney, my mom says your such a downer." I'm extremely happy about it.
I’ve never really seen myself as a optimistic person, if anything everyone sees me on the pessimistic sides of things. And I'm starting to completely agree.
Anyone else on my boat? How are other INFJ’s with compliments