Ugh! Did I mention already how I become socially impaired around any guy I flag as a potential soul mate? I've only flagged a guy a handful of times in my entire life, but each time I have multiple cascading mental meltdowns. It's a miracle that I've ever dated anyone ever.
Back to the "demanding a reaction" kind of behavior thing. I figure that if my occasionally-pushing-the-envelope-socially ENFP style is going to drive 'em nuts, it's best to find that out upfront.