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    Quote Originally Posted by Funkadelic View Post
    I'm a virgin.

    Casual Sex is for the weak who can't control their hormones. and those without integrity. or decent morals. and don't try to justify it.
    I was like this too at one time in my life. It was when I was still a virgin.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deja Vu View Post
    Love. Sex.
    They can be exclusive and inclusive of one another.

    I like both. Sometimes not at the same time.
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    i'd always take sex with love over sex without love but sometimes you just don't have a significant other, lol.

    and as long as both people are healthy and respectful and aware that it's no-strings, then i don't see the big deal with it. no, i certainly wouldn't get as emotionally or physically intimate, but i don't personally see much wrong with both enjoying physical pleasure and respecting one another and moving on. or staying friends. whatever. not that i've done the NSA thing much - but i wouldn't automatically rule it out.

    the real requirements in my mind for any kind of sex would be mutual respect and understanding.

    Quote Originally Posted by Funkadelic
    without integrity. or decent morals.
    i don't understand the association between sex and morality/integrity, unless you're in a relationship. if there is no other commitment, then why shouldn't a person be free to explore and play around physically? as long as both partners agree that there is no commitment tied to the sex, then it should not emotionally wound either of them. and as long as you are self-confident and respecting your body, there is no breech of personal integrity. so there's no detriment to anyone, as far as i see it. what kind of morals or integrity would this be breaking?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Funkadelic View Post
    Casual Sex is for the weak who can't control their hormones. and those without integrity. or decent morals. and don't try to justify it.
    Boooooo! :thumbsdown:

    LOL.

    I think ENFPs fall into two camps on this - "Hell Yes" and "Hell No"

    I wonder what camp I'm in

    I get annoyed when purely on typology sites (ahem) people assume NFs can only have sex in relationships because we get too emotionally attached to whoever we sleep with and want to marry them the next day :rolli:. Usually this is some NT making that observation. :P

    Replace "NF" with "women" and that's what you hear all the time IRL. FAIL.

    I think as long as two consenting adults are honest and communicative with themselves and each other, sex can be really good. Period.
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    How much "emotional connection" is there in Rape-sex?

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    Casual Sex is only a problem when one of the people involved doesn't know it. And was secretly or blatantly expecting more from the situation. In that case it's wrong to continue it. But people can do whatever they like. I dont judge.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Craft View Post
    How much "emotional connection" is there in Rape-sex?
    Not enough. It should be a more casual experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DaMilkyWay<3 View Post
    Casual Sex is only a problem when one of the people involved doesn't know it. And was secretly or blatantly expecting more from the situation. In that case it's wrong to continue it. But people can do whatever they like. I dont judge.
    That has happened to me. Wham bang thank you sir.

    I thought it was the beginning of a beautiful relationship. She just wanted to let off steam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vamp View Post
    That is pretty funny. Those are always the ones telling you how it should be. Those who've never done it. Or haven't lived enough to get to the point where you find out life isn't black and white.
    ...

    Apparently virgins aren't allowed to have opinions...

    :steam:

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    Quote Originally Posted by musicnerd93 View Post
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    Apparently virgins aren't allowed to have opinions...

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    I am not an ENFP, but here is my two cents.

    To me, letting myself randomly bang someone would be degrading to my self control. I have to know they are worth my time. I definitely want to respect them, and like them as a person.

    I don't like to be seen as a person who loses control like that. I don't care if other people do it- good for them. But bashing people who have casual sex because they 'can't control their hormones' is not quite nice. For the record, people really can't control their hormones.

    What they can control is their actions, and the manner they do it in, in my opinion, is their decision. It doesn't make them any more or less good of a person.
    Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

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